What do we do?

Bereaved parents are forced to make decisions that no parent should ever have to make.  In our case, we had to think about these things BEFORE our child was even born.  After we decided I should be admitted and induced, my parents came to the hospital.  I distinctly remember laying there in the bed looking … Continue reading What do we do?


8 Months

Tomorrow will mark 8 months since we said hello and goodbye to Asher.  So, what to say about month 8?  This past month we were able to participate in a few events to remember our boy.  We participated in our local Share chapter’s Walk to Remember.  We were also able to man a table at … Continue reading 8 Months


As we all know, newborn babies and their cries are a HUGE trigger for me.  I try to avoid them until they are a few months old (3 months and up), and their cry is less like a freshly born baby.  However, I can't always avoid them out in public, no matter how hard I … Continue reading Newborns